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Communicating with people with dementia requires patience and emotional intelligence. When challenging behavior arises, be calm and identify the underlying cause. It is important that caregivers take care of themselves at the same time.
Dementia alters an individual’s perception and how they interact with it. For caregivers in Hong Kong, it is often not the medical problems that are toughest to handle, but the unpredictable emotions and behaviors. This guide explains what makes communication challenging, how to cope with distressed behavior, and the local resources available to support caregivers.
How to Communicate with People with Dementia?
Why Does Dementia Affect Communication?
Dementia affects the parts of the brain responsible for language, memory, and comprehension. Due to cognitive decline, a person may:- Find it difficult to recall the right words or use incorrect terms
- Unable to understand the conversations, especially in loud or distracting environments
- Repeat the same phrases and questions
- Misunderstand the tone of voice and facial expression/span>
- Become frustrated when they cannot express themselves
Practical Communication Tips
Although the effects of dementia are irreversible, we can still use the following techniques to help individuals with dementia receive and understand information, thereby improving communication:：- Speak slowly and use short, clear sentences
- Maintain eye contact and a calm, reassuring tone
- Minimize environmental distractions (e.g., turn off TV, relocate to a quieter setting)
- Offer choices (e.g., “Would you like tea or water?”)
- Allow plenty of time for the person to respond; do not rush them
- Use gestures, pictures, or physical objects to aid communication
How to Respond to Distressed Behaviour?
Distressed behaviour in dementia often comes from fear, discomfort, confusion, or unmet needs. The person is not being difficult on purpose. They are simply trying to communicate distress in the only way they know. When this happens, start by staying calm, acknowledging their feelings, and gently redirecting their attention. Finally, we can try to find out the underlying reasons.
What are Distressed Behaviors”?
Distressed behaviour refers to a range of symptoms in perception, emotions, or behaviours shown by people with dementia, such as:
- Anxiety, depression
- Suspicious, unwilling to communicate with others
- Repetitive questioning or actions
- Wandering
- Sleeping disorders
Common causes behind these behaviors:
- Physical discomfort: pain, hunger, or fatigue
- Environmental changes: noise or unfamiliar surroundings
- Emotional distress: hallucination, delusion
- Changes in daily routine
A five-step response framework:
- Stay calm: People with dementia can quickly sense your emotions
- Do not argue: Avoid arguing with people with dementia
- Acknowledge the feeling: Validate their emotions by saying, “I can see you’re worried. I’m right here.”
- Gently redirect their attention: Offer a drink, play familiar music, or arrange activities
- Find out underlying reasons: identify any unmet needs
What respite services are available for caregivers in Hong Kong?
Respite care is a planned, short-term care arrangement that provides care for people with dementia while allowing caregivers to rest. Research on dementia caregivers in Hong Kong indicates that nearly 40% experience distress directly linked to their caregiving duties. Neglecting regular breaks can lead to caregiver burnout, harming both your health and the quality of care.
Types of Respite Care Services in Hong Kong:
- Day care services: JCCPA’s day care provides day care services on weekdays. They offer cognitive training and personal care for people with dementia.
- Short-term residential care: Designed for caregivers requiring an extended break, travelling, or managing personal health issues. JCCPA and select residential care homes provide temporary institutional placement.
- Home support services: home support services allow people with dementia to remain in a familiar environment while providing caregivers with temporary relief from their responsibilities.
Caregiver support and referral services
- Caregiver support groups: Peer groups led by social workers offer emotional relief and practical advice. Caregivers can contact JCCPA at 2333 2393 for the latest activity schedules.
- Training courses: JCCPA’s family caregiver training covers communication, daily care management, and behaviour response strategies. Alternatively, the iSupport for Dementia online course is a great self-paced option.
- Social welfare referrals: Integrated Family Service Centres and Medical Social Services Units across Hong Kong can provide assistance with applying for subsidized care services and financial assistance.
FAQ
1. Why do people with dementia repeat the same questions?
Answer: This is usually driven by short-term memory loss and anxiety. They honestly do not remember asking the question, or they are seeking a sense of security. Caregivers shall respond calmly every time.
2. How do I calm people with dementia during agitation?
Answer: Maintain a calm demeanor, minimize environmental noise, and communicate in a reassuring tone while redirecting their attention to a familiar activity.
3. Are caregiver support groups helpful?
Answer: Yes. Caregiver support groups allow for sharing experiences and exchanging practical care strategies. Furthermore, they are highly effective in mitigating the social isolation frequently experienced by caregivers.
